DEADNESS IN SEX OR MY RELATIONSHIP IS HEALED BY MOVING INTO A PLACE OF BIRTH


Deadness is a defence to protect ourself from our unconscious mind. One of the fastest ways to move out of deadness is to find the major feeling hiding beneath it. This feeling has such strength and power that when seen correctly, it automatically moves us into a new birth. The kind of feelings that knock us to our knees, like heartbreak, jealousy, terror, violence, anger, emptiness, nothingness, and futility, are truly birth situations. When we are in deadness, simply asking for the birth situation will take us to the pain that the deadness hides. Typically there is so much pain here we lose our awareness, so when we hit this place, remembering that we asked for the birth helps. This place of sacred fire pain, of purification, is the place of our birth. All it takes to move out of the pain and into the birth process is to give. Typically, at this point, we are in so much pain that we often forget or feel resistance to giving. Remembering to give creates an easy birth. It can be the simplest type of giving - sending love to someone, supporting someone or helping someone in the simplest possible way. Just giving moves us into a new birth, into a place that contains things like a much greater love, a higher level of sexuality, passion, creativity or art, a new level of psychic ability, a new sense of vitality in health, new confidence or power, and a greater sense of peace, vision and purpose.


Today, get out of deadness and move into a place of birth. Ask yourself what is the feeling beneath the deadness, and when it comes, begin giving to take yourself out of the pain. Create the new birth by giving.

BEING TRUE TO MYSELF MEANS I CANNOT BE FALSE TO ANYONE


When we are true to ourself and stand in our own centre, we have a natural direction and purpose to our life. Sometimes, people around us become uncomfortable when we are in our centre because living our truth reawakens them. It asks them not to live comfortably in areas where they are stuck in roles and duties. Even though we make them uncomfortable, we are not being false to them. Being truly committed to ourself makes it impossible to betray anyone because truth for ourself allows us to extend the truth to others; it allows them to take their next step also.


Today, take a look at all the different areas where you could be truer to yourself. Where something is difficult, you are not being true to yourself. It is also important to note that it is not necessarily what you are doing that may be untrue, it may be how you are doing it. Sometimes, you may be doing something for approval that seems to help you in the short run, but will lead to failure in the long run. In areas where you are true to yourself, you are receiving, and things naturally flow with a certain ease, so now is the time to be true to yourself. By living this truth, you are true to everyone else.

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PAIN IS AN AREA WHERE I HAVE CUT THE LINES OF RELATEDNESS


Pain is a place where we have removed ourself from the situation because it seemed too difficult, where we have pulled back from others because we didn't like what they were doing. By deciding not to recognise the relationship, we cut ourself off and we are suffering as a result. Even years later, we suffer as we get in touch with subconscious places where we cut the threads of connection with old friends and family members, or with parts of ourself.


Today, see who comes to your mind as someone with whom you are called to reconnect. Reach out to them and extend yourself so you can remove the pain you are experiencing. Allow yourself to feel the connection with all of those people as you mend the lines of relatedness.

DISAPPOINTMENT IS ALMOST RELEASE


Disappointment is the first step on the way to release. Unfortunately, most of us stop here and forever remain disappointed because things did not turn out the way we felt we needed them to. If we are willing to experience the disappointment and the need within it, and let it go, we move out of stress into success; we stop pushing the proverbial river. We listen to life's rhythms rather than trying to squeeze life into our concepts. Disappointment lets us know that our picture of life is not a true one, and as we let it go, we are taught what life is really about. We become like an empty glass ready to be filled, rather than full and unable to take in anything more.


Today, imagine you are like a glass. Clear yourself of all disappointments and stand ready to be filled with what life will teach you.

If it hurts, it's not love

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LOVE HURTS

WHAT I REJECT IN MY PARENTS, I WILL ACT OUT


The way we have judged our parents is, deep down, the way we have judged ourself. We react to this in one of two ways. By rejecting a behaviour in our parents, we get to act it out as a way for us to understand what drove them to that behaviour in the first place. The other way is where we behave in a totally opposite way as a compensation for how our parents acted. We form roles out of our judgements against our parents, roles that lead us into sacrifice with our children or our partners. Ironically, under the role, we are stuck with the feelings of what we rejected in our parents.


Today, take a look at what you have rejected about your parents, and see if you are acting in the same way or in a compensatory way. See if you are acting out a role that makes you do good things, but does not let you receive, which eventually leads to burn-out. Your understanding of their situation, and your willingness to forgive them will release all of you. Allow God's Love to help you forgive them, and say from your heart, "In God's Love I forgive you, Mom. In God's Love I forgive you, Dad."